Titus 2

“… the older women likewise, that they be reverent in behavior, not slanderers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things– that they admonish the young women to love their husbands, to love their children, to be discreet, chaste, homemakers, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God may not be blasphemed.” Titus 2.3-5

This month we will consider Paul’s requirement of older women to be teachers of good things. Two things will be looked at: women as teachers and what is meant by “good things”.

There is an obvious mandate given in this passage for women to teach. Eyebrows may be raised at this thought, but it is clear — the call to teach is made; the audience and topics are the questions to be answered.

Today let’s explore different methods of teaching, recognizing that Paul is calling every Christian woman to come into maturity and instruct others. The adjective used in our passage is “older”, a description that all of us will attain with time. It is inescapable. You will almost inevitably be older and more experienced than someone. So it will be necessary that we prepare to be teachers.

Some of you are a bit apprehensive, even frightened, at the thought. But as we consider some varying approaches to teaching I am sure we will find that this is an attainable goal for all of us.

The thought of teaching typically brings the image of a formal setting to mind, whether it be classroom, home Bible study, or instruction as a mentor. Indeed, this is one type of teaching. You may or may not have a “teaching gift” as described in Romans 12.4-8, but you are still able lead someone in a simple look at scripture, or faithfully share a lesson God has taught you with a small group of younger ladies. This kind of teaching is intentional, planned, thought through. It is demanding, but not overly so. It simply demands faithfulness with the work of God in your life.

I remember distinctly the time God began requiring this of me. As I resisted, insisting that I was unable to share in front of peers, certain that I had nothing of value to say, He challenged me with this: “Do you mean to say that I have not been faithful to you, that I have not shown you anything or taught you to walk in Holy Ways?” I was, of course, instantly humbled and deeply pained. I had in no way meant to belittle my wonderful Saviour and His faithful work in my life, but by declaring that I had nothing to say that is exactly what I was doing. From then on, as He tapped me on the shoulder to say, “Now is the time to say something, to help, to answer that question, to meet with that group of young moms,” I responded with, “Yes, Lord.” And my season of teaching began. I recognized the need to dust off the journals, remind myself of lessons learned, write down my recollections, and share. It was that simple. Really.

So now is the time to begin. Write down your life lessons. Study and keep records. Jot down insights as they come. Be faithful with the work of God in your life. Don’t let it slip away unnoticed. Be faithful.

Teaching takes place in informal settings as well. This best happens when we have become true disciples; our very lives become epistles, testimonies of what He has done deep within our hearts and minds. As we live daily life, words of wisdom and kindness adorn our lips. Our responses to adversity and success alike bring glory to Him. And those who standby watching learn. I am not speaking hypothetically — God actually intends for this to be happening.

We must decide to befriend those who are younger, spending time just being together. If you are a young mom, have them in your home; if you are older and freer, consider going to their homes. Work side by side, just chatting as you work. These are invaluable times of instruction. Help them with decorating, cooking, cleaning, shopping, whatever. Just spend quality time together. If your life is truly hidden in Christ, He will be revealed to them. Surely this is not too difficult. But surely this is essential for healthy discipleship. There is nothing better than to be able to say to someone, as Paul said, “Follow after me even as I follow after Christ.”

Begin considering this today: God is looking for women who will teach younger women. What is your part? When and how? For some of you the time is not yet. Your portion is to prepare faithfully. Others will recognize that He is indeed tapping you on the shoulder. There is much work to be done; many younger women are in need of instruction. How can we rise to the occasion? Let Him challenge you and stretch you. He is just looking for the willing vessel to fill and use.