Titus 2

Reverence: the fear and the love

Danica Dunphey

Walking in reverence is purposing to live in the constant knowledge that God is, and that He sees and governs all. This radically changes the way we live each of our moments. But for those of us who have believed in Jesus for salvation, this life of reverence takes on even more meaning.

Somehow, mingled with the ever-deepening awe we experience as we come to understand just how holy God is, there is also an ever-deepening love for Him. See, we first realize that He is fearfully awesome — a consuming fire, a holy Judge, a blindingly pure light — and then it dawns on us that this uncreated Being, who was and is and is to come, has set His love upon us. The God who is nothing but goodness has made us the beneficiaries of His goodness.

Amazing.

And so, living in this reverence mingled with love produces two results in our lives.

The first is that, not only do we walk more carefully because we fear God (which we should!), we also walk carefully because we love Him! It’s not just the fear of judgment that keeps us seeking His ways; it’s the burning desire to see Him smile and say, “Well done!” The knowledge of how much He hates sin certainly puts the fear of God in me, as the saying goes, but there is more than that: I don’t want to stop at forsaking sin, I want to run ahead and embrace His perfect will!

The knowledge that the Holy God loves me also helps me to understand that His ways are for my own good, even if it doesn’t always feel like it. When I choose His way, really, I’m choosing life.

And so walking in holiness becomes this life-filled walk that is so much more than just fearing a Holy Judge, but pursuit of His pleasure — the smile that has become my soul’s sunshine.

The second result this mysterious mingling produces is a faith-filled response to life. See, in this world we will have trials and tribulations, hardship and heartache. This isn’t a “bubble” gospel we have received. But if we have embraced a constant reverence for a holy, powerful God, our response to the curve balls sent our way will set us apart as women of faith. The waters may overwhelm us, but our feet will find that beneath them is a Rock that is unmoving, and in our hearts we can experience peace that passes our understanding — peace that doesn’t even make sense.

In my sister Brietta’s words:

Many of you know that seven months ago, my youngest was born with CHD (congenital heart disease). Hers is not a mild situation, either: the chambers of her heart are reversed, one of the main arteries (aorta) is connected to both ventricles, and there is a size-able hole in her heart that will not heal on its own because her constant blood flow keeps it open. We didn’t know before Aubrey’s birth that there was anything wrong with her heart. That day in September was a shock, as were the subsequent days as we learned through pediatric cardiologists what was the matter with her.

There are lots of questions that have surfaced in my heart since that day. I’ve wondered why– why such a small baby, why us, why now? What caused this? Did I do something wrong? What will the future be like? Can I be strong enough? Why can’t it be me instead of her? Why, God… why?

Some of these questions can be answered. The cardiologists say they may never know what caused the CHD because it doesn’t run in either Daniel’s or my family, but I know that this has come from the enemy who seeks to steal, kill, and destroy everyone God makes and loves.

Many can’t be answered, though. Not right now anyway. I can’t predict the details of the future, nor can I see the plan of God the way He does.

But He does, and that’s the point. He sees what I cannot. He’s got a plan to see His glory cover the earth like the waters cover the sea. He knows the full story of redemption, including every detail for every person. I may not understand the specifics right now, but I take comfort in knowing that He’s had Aubrey’s testimony written since before she was even conceived.

He is God and I am not. The sooner I fall in worship before an Almighty Creator and Sustainer, the sooner I am brought to a place of rest, peace, hope, and confidence. When I reverence Him as the holy, all-knowing, author and finisher that He is, the circumstances and challenges of this life are put into proper perspective. He is good. He is above all. He is working things out so that a people are built for Himself.

So today, allow me to challenge you to choose reverence. As decisions come, purpose to please the One who is watching — and who delights in your obedience. And as the winds of life blow, respond as one who knows the end already: He wins, and we reign with Him.

Discussion

2 comments for “Reverence: the fear and the love”

  1. How to respond to such an awesome post? I personally have learned so much about God’s Love over the past sixty-one years. Even before I knew the Lord He knew me!So knowing that has also made me wonder why to some questions in my own life. One being, why was I born with a club foot? Why all the exstensive surgerys just so I could walk? Why did I have to spend so many months in the hospital away from my mother and father who I missed so much? Why as a teenager did I have to endure the mocking of my peers,”How come you got one leg smaller then the other?” Or worse yet some one you onced love saying, ” Your nothing but a cripple,no one will ever want you.”I remember praying every night as a child asking God to heal my leg…I would close my eyes and put my hand on my leg as I was praying…and then I would open my eyes to see if I was healed…I wasn’t, but I never was mad at God or even dissapointed.God has taught me much since then.I still have not been healed as far as my leg is cocerned ( which is nothing compared Aubrey’s little heart). If this is any comfort to you Bretta my mother and father suffered greatly too, as you do and wondered if they had done something wrong,but they never lost their faith in a loving God who knows the answer to everything. I was the ninth child born to them of nine children,and all my other siblings were born with no problems, so I sort of wondered why me, what did I do wrong? So many questions,so little answers. But I know He Loves me and some day I may have the answers If I still want them, but I will see His face and that will be enough for me!!!! We are praying for Aubrey to be healed by the direct hand of God or by Him using another mans hands through surgery. Be encourged , God is for you as you already know. Love in Christ Sue.

    Posted by Sue Henry | April 21, 2008, 8:00 am
  2. Danica,
    This post is one that I read during my lunch break. It is beautiful…really…I so needed it!
    It is an amazing revelation when we look upon the splendor of God’s mercy and love. How it is that we stumble out of reverence/fear/awe is beyond me. The best place to be, I have found, is face down at His feet! That is where my faith is increased thousand-fold!I eagerly await that smile from my Daddy too–the one that says I am following HIS ways. I love Him so!!!
    I pray for Aubrey daily—she is adorable—her smile over mommy’s shoulder at church lights up the room!
    Wonderful post!
    Michele

    Posted by Michele LaPointe | April 21, 2008, 9:22 am

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